I actually didn't see it until we got home, and I saw Ethan sneak something to Aaron behind his back. Never a good sign.
Me. What have you got?
Aaron. Nothing, mom.
Me. Ethan, what did you give him?!
Ethan. Trust me mom, you don't want to know.
Me. (uses 'mom' voice) Give. It. To. Me.
( the 'mom' voice is irrefutable, so they had no choice but to hand it over. Which they did.)
Me. (screams, shouts, growls, mild, child-appropriate swears)
Aaron. Why don't you like dolphins again, Mom?
Me. Uh... I'll tell you when you're older.
As far as other things going on in and about fandom, I'll say that I'm too angry, too upset and too disappointed in so many things that I really don't want to talk to most anyone about anything. When I'm completely calm, I'll revisit the situation. Maybe. If I feel like it, and if I still feel as if the people involved are worth the time and energy needed to post.
I still say: If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.